Advice On Getting Your Boyfriend Back

Although there is plenty advice available on the question of how to get your boyfriend back most of it really is not worth very much. Begging him to take you back really does not strike me as a good way of going about things.



Other people will advise you to play games and try to make him jealous and though that may work, do you really want a relationship based on jealousy? Before you say you don't care remember that this type of relationship will not last. As soon as your guy knows he has you back or as soon as the old problems start to surface again your relationship will be over, again.



If the break up occurred through something you did then apologizing might be just the thing that is needed rather than mind games or trickery. Do not misunderstand, even if you were not entirely to blame chances are good that you did handle some things wrong. Apologizing cannot hurt.



Another benefit of acknowledging your mistakes is that it will give you a chance to make changes. That way if you and your guy do get back together you won't just repeat the same mistakes all over again and continue to cause each other pain.



Even if a reunion between the two of you does not result from your apology it is still a very good thing to do. Through doing so you will know what mistakes to avoid in your next relationship. When you figure out your mistakes and you make the necessary changes you will find that either way, you will come out of it a better person in the end.



When you make contact for the purpose of giving your apology keep it short and sweet. Let him know that you understand your mistakes and that you are genuinely sorry for any pain that you caused him.



Do not resort to crying and begging and do not go into it with grand expectations of him taking you back right on the spot. It could be that he won't. He may need time to mull it all over and make up his mind about whether or not he wants to try again even with the new and more mature version of you.



If he doesn't immediately take you back, give him space. Don't contact him for a while. Let him have time to think things over and decide for himself what he wants to do. If you pester him you will most likely just make the situation worse.



While he has his space you need to move on with your life. Do not sit around waiting to hear from him. Do things that will make you feel good about yourself. Go shopping and do what you can to look amazing and get together with your friends. By just waiting for his call you will simply cause yourself unnecessary stress and time will appear to move frustratingly slowly.



Following the above advice will stand you in much better stead when it comes to getting your man back again rather than following the advice to play games and make him jealous. Ultimately it is all up to you so go do it!



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